*****Sorry for the mess! I'm still compiling this section...
Mainstream Media Articles on Abuse and SM
When Safewords Are Ignored. Salon. Tracy Clark-Flory.
A BDSM Blacklist. Salon. Tracy Clark-Flory.
Kink Community Tells Sexual Assault Victims It's All Their Fault. Jezebel. Katie J. M. Baker.
Rape Culture and Misogyny, BDSM Specific
Domism: Role Essentialism and Sexism Intersectionality in the BDSM Scene. Yes Means Yes. Thomas M. Millar.
I Never Called It Rape. Safe/Ward. Kitty Stryker.
Consent [Violated]. Perverted Negress. Mollena Williams.
Are We Men a Bunch of Lying Pricks? Jay Wiseman.
The Missing Stair. Cliff Pervocracy.
The Scene Is Not Safe. Cliff Pervocracy.
Why I Didn't Just Call the Cops. Cliff Pervocracy.
The Default Assumption Should be that [Nonconsensual] Groping is Not Okay. Fetlife. alisoninsweden.
John Baku is Not the Bad Guy. Fetlife. Wainskote.
Silence Around Abuse in BDSM Community Puts People at Risk. Fetlife. EbonyMermaid.
'But You Went Back for More:' Abuse and BDSM. Fetlife. _Raine_.
Victim Blaming and False Accusations, BDSM Specific
Assault and Consent in the BDSM Community. Franklin Veaux.
I *Should* Make You Feel Uncomfortable. Fetlife. LoriAdorable.
I *Should* Make You Feel Uncomfortable. Fetlife. LoriAdorable.
"Go to the Police" is a Not Helping
Why I Didn't Just Call the Cops. Cliff Pervocracy.
What's Good for the Goose... (e.g., if someone commits libel...). Fetlife. mad_patter.
What Happened When I Went to the Police. Fetlife. LisetteBelow.
Why Didn't They Go the Police? Fetlife. Hot_Tramp.
Why I Will Never Go to the Police. Fetlife. anarchamasochist.
My Story--Why I Will Never Go to the Police. Fetlife. djinni_pup.
Racism, BDSM Specific
BDSM: It's Less Transgressive Than You Think. Salon. Tracy Clark-Flory Interviews Margot Weiss.
Kink and Accountability. Fetlife. PirateJenny.
Unpacking the Invisible Toybag (Or, Scene Specific White Privilege). Fetlife. _Spiral_.
A Written (And Heavily Link-Laden) History of the Recent Racist Shitstorm (TM) Here on Fetlife. Fetlife. _Spiral_.
Y'know... Fetlife. _Spiral_.
Beware of Trout: The Racism Post. Fetlife. Albizia.
Ableism, BDSM Specific
Rape Culture, General
What You Can Do
Five Things Men Can Do To Not Be Creepy. Charlie Glickman.
How *Not* To Be a Douche in the Dungeon. Fetlife. MissMaggieMayhem.
Ways to Combat Sexual Abuse/Power-Based Violence (Esp. if you are in an alt-sex community). Creatrix Tiara.
But...But...PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY!!!. Fetlife. erinhoudini.
Can You Face Her in the Morning? (How to Assault People Less). Fetlife. SadisticLark.
(NB: This site does not endorse the M/f-ism, heterosexism, or ableism in this piece.)
If I Violate Your Consent, Yell It to the Fucking World. Seriously. Fetlife. Wainskote.
A Memo for POTENTIAL "Predators"/"Abusers"/Etc. Fetlife. MargoEve.
How *Not* To Be a Douche in the Dungeon. Fetlife. MissMaggieMayhem.
Ways to Combat Sexual Abuse/Power-Based Violence (Esp. if you are in an alt-sex community). Creatrix Tiara.
But...But...PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY!!!. Fetlife. erinhoudini.
Can You Face Her in the Morning? (How to Assault People Less). Fetlife. SadisticLark.
(NB: This site does not endorse the M/f-ism, heterosexism, or ableism in this piece.)
If I Violate Your Consent, Yell It to the Fucking World. Seriously. Fetlife. Wainskote.
A Memo for POTENTIAL "Predators"/"Abusers"/Etc. Fetlife. MargoEve.
Personal Accounts of Abuse in BDSM
[Coming Soon]
"And This is Why I Left the Scene..." Accounts
[Coming Soon]
General Websites
Consent Culture. Kitty Stryker's blog.